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Monty wrote:I use mxit a lot, and the only things that could remotely be considered sms speak that i use are acronyms such as wtf, afaik and such. And 90% of my mxit contacts also use proper english and avoid sms speak like the plague

The Aristocrats!

Ark: I like that get her to break up with you plan...

Try getting her to do increasingly more "adventurous" things with you in the sack.
See how far she goes before she cant stand it any more and bails.
PM me the details.

jamin_za wrote: PM me the details.

With pics obviously?

But yes, the idea has some merit. Getting her to give you the boot - and having fun whilst doing so?

wat do?

go to 4chan

post pix

post dox

ask /b for help breaking up with her

oh and post no's ending in 05 must receive noodz



Stop being cancer and remember rules 1 & 2!
- jamin

Breaking up is never easy as everyone said already.

Try this:

Sit her down and tell her you need to talk to her. Then try and explain to her that the relationship is not working for you anymore, but NEVER ever go on with something like this:

"But YOU always do this and YOU always do that. YOU never let me, YOU never" ect ect.

Tell her that she is wonderful person with great qualities and that she will again find someone that deserves her, but in this point in time it's not you. When she starts to cry, be strong dude. Crying is often used as blackmail by females in arguments, but that is how they express their feelings. Remember, females are much more emotionally orientated and they always try and find a feeling to couple that with what has been said. Be gentle with her, but also firm in what you are saying.

Never break up on bad terms or let there be anger between you two in the future. Why burn a good bridge?

Good luck.

IcePick88 wrote:Breaking up is never easy as everyone said already.

Try this:

Sit her down and tell her you need to talk to her. Then try and explain to her that the relationship is not working for you anymore, but NEVER ever go on with something like this:

"But YOU always do this and YOU always do that. YOU never let me, YOU never" ect ect.

Tell her that she is wonderful person with great qualities and that she will again find someone that deserves her, but in this point in time it's not you. When she starts to cry, be strong dude. Crying is often used as blackmail by females in arguments, but that is how they express their feelings. Remember, females are much more emotionally orientated and they always try and find a feeling to couple that with what has been said. Be gentle with her, but also firm in what you are saying.

Never break up on bad terms or let there be anger between you two in the future. Why burn a good bridge?

Good luck.

Uh... Rather keep it short and with no explanation than lie

All I can tell you is:
1) Tell the truth
2)Do it quickly. DO NOT LET IT DRAG OUT OVER SEVERAL MONTHS!!!! I did and it´s a really bad way to tear someones heart slowly.
3) Don´t be a wuss about it. It´s going to hurt. A lot. Just remember that she will respect, love and hate your choice for being a man about it rather then think you are a coward.

And no word from Ark since page 1?

doo_much wrote:And no word from Ark since page 1?

Maybe she killed him?

I'm adding another voice to the crowd here, and saying that you have to do it face to face.

I've found honesty to be the best with most tough situations. When you talk to her, keep it short, to the point, and honest. The tears will be there, but you have to look past them. When the taps come on, focus and remember why you want to do this.

Good luck.

Monty wrote:

IcePick88 wrote:Breaking up is never easy as everyone said already.

Try this:

Sit her down and tell her you need to talk to her. Then try and explain to her that the relationship is not working for you anymore, but NEVER ever go on with something like this:

"But YOU always do this and YOU always do that. YOU never let me, YOU never" ect ect.

Tell her that she is wonderful person with great qualities and that she will again find someone that deserves her, but in this point in time it's not you. When she starts to cry, be strong dude. Crying is often used as blackmail by females in arguments, but that is how they express their feelings. Remember, females are much more emotionally orientated and they always try and find a feeling to couple that with what has been said. Be gentle with her, but also firm in what you are saying.

Never break up on bad terms or let there be anger between you two in the future. Why burn a good bridge?

Good luck.

Uh... Rather keep it short and with no explanation than lie

Uh...where did I lie?

if she is a wonderful person, I doubt he would want to break up with her.

Monty wrote:if she is a wonderful person, I doubt he would want to break up with her.

Well, he did not give particulars about what type of person she is. I dated a girl a few years back. Although the relationship did not work for me I still think she is a wonderful women. She has her flaws, but so do all of us. It's just that when two people are not compatible it will not work. She might be wedding material for one guy, but not for him.

I think /b/ is the last place on earth anybody should go to for advice lol

Anyway, today is the last exam.. Will be doing the deed tonight. Really not looking forward to it..
I'm actually shaking when I think about it.

If you want particulars, I'll fill you guys in when its done. All I can say right now is she is NOT what I look for in a woman.

Wish me luck

Good luck. Do what needs doing.

Ark wrote:I think /b/ is the last place on earth anybody should go to for advice lol

Anyway, today is the last exam.. Will be doing the deed tonight. Really not looking forward to it..
I'm actually shaking when I think about it.

If you want particulars, I'll fill you guys in when its done. All I can say right now is she is NOT what I look for in a woman.

Wish me luck

Good luck.

How long have you been dating if I may ask?

Good luck man.

Ark wrote:I think /b/ is the last place on earth anybody should go to for advice lol

Anyway, today is the last exam.. Will be doing the deed tonight. Really not looking forward to it..
I'm actually shaking when I think about it.

If you want particulars, I'll fill you guys in when its done. All I can say right now is she is NOT what I look for in a woman.

Wish me luck

Would that be a jamin deed?

Try not to destroy her but come out out of it with all your appendages attached .

Would be nine months tomorrow

It is done.

Didn't quite go the way I planned it, though... I was supposed to go see her this afternoon, but it didn't quite work out that way. I'm moving house this weekend and got roped into putting up a gate and fence at the new place, so yea.. Could't make it.
I got called to talk on mxit, so when I went on I told her I wouldn't be able to make it today. That's when the fight started.

Yea.. The fight got worse and worse till happened. I don't know how, but it just happened. Not what I initially had in mind, but that's how it ended up.






Btw.. In general, if you or your girl feel like picking a fight, please don't do it over instant messenger or sms. The lack of hearing tone of voice or seeing facial expression just makes it worse. All arguments - no matter how small - should be done in person. When it comes to texting, it litterally only takes a tiny spark to cause a massive forest fire. One more thing.. When you're about to start an argument, first stop and think if the topic at hand really is worth arguing about. That's all.

Sorry that it ended badly. At least it is done now and you and she can move on. But you are right - fighting in text is not a sensible thing.

sorry it went so fubar but its now over.

What is more than likely to happen now though, is she is probably going to try get in contact with you. Ignore at all costs. And be civil and courteous to her friends but walk away if they give you trouble