best friend blues

Prime · Post by **Prime** » 02 Jul 2004, 21:47

my freinds dating this awesome chic. the thing is im friends with her and am becoming emotionally attached.

i don't want to screw up my frienship

help

Prime · Post by **Prime** » 02 Jul 2004, 21:50

let me rephrase that

my best friend (a guy) is dating a girl who im friends with also.

Post by **Iceblade** » 02 Jul 2004, 22:25

OK

So this is AMD VS Intel again

Screeper · Post by **Screeper** » 02 Jul 2004, 22:26

Easy answer, don't tread on your friends toes, ever!

Girlfriends come and go but good mates tend to stick around way way longer.

Stealing a gf from your friend is heavy, very heavy.

Inslaine · Post by **Inslaine** » 02 Jul 2004, 22:53

If you are prepared to make an enemy of your friend then go ahead with it. Otherwise you could be honest with your friend about your feelings. But either way, he WONT be impressed!

Psych0_Cr1tt3r · Post by **Psych0_Cr1tt3r** » 02 Jul 2004, 23:07

you could tell him you like the girl that way but cuz his your friend you wont touch her. I guess the honesty and sencerity would soften the blow a little and wont cost you a friend.

Prime · Post by **Prime** » 04 Jul 2004, 14:05

i would never bust up a freinds relationship 8O

what do people think i am, a *******

8O

no it just bugs me that i like her.

and they really like each other so im not ever going to interfere

Post by **Iceblade** » 04 Jul 2004, 14:16

ok dude, that's a great plan

One thing, is she also interested in you

Prime · Post by **Prime** » 04 Jul 2004, 14:56

Iceblade wrote:ok dude, that's a great plan

One thing, is she also interested in you

no i dont think she's intersted in me but we are friends

but im also friends with 2 of her other friends.

the thing is if my friends break up or their relationship turns sour theres going to be a huge rift with the rest of us

Post by **Iceblade** » 04 Jul 2004, 16:07

If she is not interested, you and you're friend will stay friend forever

If you keep your hands where they belong

But if you think she is and she tries some love action on your a$$, run and tell your friend, to protect him and your friendship

Prime · Post by **Prime** » 04 Jul 2004, 16:10

i'd ask her friend out but the thing is if it turns sour its the same scenario and its to close to home. the worst thing is that i would then still see her them cos we go to the same church.

Prime · Post by **Prime** » 04 Jul 2004, 16:14

when i say ask her out i refer to to my friends girl friends friend (see two messages previously)

if my friends girl friend tried that i would be worried, very worried and would certainly tell him

Prime · Post by **Prime** » 04 Jul 2004, 16:36

ok lets refer to my friend as A and his girlfriend as B and her friends as BCD C and D are her friends. A and B relations ship is AB. my friends fall under E

i like B but B is hooked up with A. i will never interfere in AB. Unless B tries some thing on me in which case I would tell A.

but if AB break up then their will be a rift between BCD and E along with A and Myself

i would
ask C out but if it turns sour the it causes the above problem

now are we clear

Psych0_Cr1tt3r · Post by **Psych0_Cr1tt3r** » 04 Jul 2004, 18:48

not really, no

Slasher · Post by **Slasher** » 04 Jul 2004, 20:30

I never was good at followin "Storie somme" in maths...

And that storie got me so confused.... But then again , I dont try to interfere in love lifes.. Thats where u lose teeth...

Post by **Iceblade** » 04 Jul 2004, 22:58

Slasher is right, love is no game

And if you really like/love someone, go for it, if it doesn't work out, tough

But don't waste oppertunities that you gonna regret someday

SmL9 · Post by **SmL9** » 05 Jul 2004, 00:34

Slasher wrote:But then again , I dont try to interfere in love lifes.. Thats where u lose teeth...

...and nipple rings. I know of a guy who got into a pretty heavy fight over a girl and got both his nipple rings RIPPED out. Ouch!

Iceblade wrote:And if you really like/love someone, go for it, if it doesn't work out, tough

But don't waste oppertunities that you gonna regret someday

Yeah go for it da_ripper!