jamin_za wrote:I think if your immediate response to an insult is violence then you may have some issues.
Someone "saying something derogatory" to your wife is not grounds for a life-threatening beat-down. One snot-klap will suffice
This is the point I'm trying to make. That one snot klap will turn into a fully fledged assault. I lose it situations like that. Especially if the guy retaliates. Then I'm thinking WTF and beat some more.
Losing it is what I not doing again.
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The snot-klap bit was a joke, hence I suffixes it with a winking smiley.
Although 99% of guys would respond that way (myself included possibly, depending on the insult), it's not the best way of handling that situation as it almost always ends in a brawl.
In my experience guys who go around insulting other guys partners are looking for a fight, and usually have a few friends in reserve in case things don't go their way. It's not worth it. Your wife will understand - hell, she probably doesn't want you to cause a scene over it anyway.
Is it okay for me to introduce my fist to my boss's son's face. The little asshat has a ****** little personality and he speaks to me as if I'm one of his peers when I'm 11 years his senior.
Hman wrote:Is it okay for me to introduce my fist to my boss's son's face. The little asshat has a ****** little personality and he speaks to me as if I'm one of his peers when I'm 11 years his senior.
Yes. Ambush him in the alley after work. Outside work premises and teach him a lesson.
Trust me, he will never disrespect you again.
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Hman wrote:I'm thinking of giving him a love tap on the knee with a baton.
Don't forget the stocking.
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It takes much hard work and years of practice ti control anger and violence like that. As Ice said, if you know you have the propensity for violence, stay away from any situation that can cause a possible outbreak, even if others (and you...) will think you are a coward. Rather be thought a coward than be a murderer.
Siemens.... take it from an old pro.... seek professional help to get that situation diffused. Soon. Please?
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Do what I do.... if you lose your temper, and trust me I am a very very calm person until I lose it, you will see me disappear for a couple of minutes until I have cool head again. I had to learn how to just disappear without taking my temper out directly on people.... Being an Aries of German descent and all.... Damn stereotypes... Guess there is truth to them... Any case back to the topic: I used to get violent to the point where I put someone in the hospital and from there on I just decided to disappear when angered.
jamin_za wrote:I'm not sure if there are pills for rage alone IE if your rage is not part of a larger psychological problem, will meds help?
Maybe RiaX can answer that?
there are but depends what type of rage you talking about, these are mainly meant for psychos the type of people that seem rabid. Drug is called Clopixol® (zuclopenthixol is the generic name) if you wanna gain some random knowledge.
You get things for anxiety and i suppose it could be used for rage, never treated any "normal people" rage. As for me i just rage like a psychotic thing, that way the doctors, matrons, sisters FEAR meh
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CapNemo wrote:Until they put you in the padded room
lol i worked in a psych hospital before not nice place to work. The patients' reality is so warped it begins you warp your own because you interact with them. Who said psychosis cant be contagious. Every psychiatrist that worked there for 30 odd years all committed suicide or went mental themselves
