@ Sykomantis: Turns 18 in October, so yeah, if he can stall, he has right of refusal at least.
jee wrote:Mina, is there someone at school, or even better, at the church that he can talk to that might be open to the problem of male hormones v female hormones? What sayeth the doctor? Is there a chance to see a counselor/psychologist that could help with the motivation of his parents?
He actually has a GID diagnosis already - he's quietly been seeing a psychiatrist out of pocket over the last few months after we figured it would help in coming out to them, and mean he could start hormone therapy right away. He's not wanted to use it though because he's afraid his folks will dismiss it - he has an older sister who's a Wiccan, and his parents are firmly convinced that she's possessed. But yeah, at least he does have that bit of "legitimacy" and professional support if things turn ugly.
He's going to go see the doctor this week some time and speak to him about the whole situation. I'm hoping if he can get the GP on his side along with the psychiatrist, he has a much better chance of managing this whole affair.
Sojourn wrote:All said and done... if his parents do not want to co-op with him on what he wants, then rather postpone everything until he is legally able to make is own choices without parent intervention. It would be a bigger muckup if his parents forces him into one direction against his will now, than it would be if he goes against their will (after the inevitable "talk" with them) later on without having to fix wrong turns. If this makes sense.
That was originally his intention, but with the added complication of the abortive puberty, he kinda has to deal with it all now, because his parents will know about the tests as soon as they get the account - he couldn't afford to pay for those himself. In hindsight, bad mistake on his and my part to not have thought of that.
Mina.
"Don't waste your whole life trying to get back what was taken away" - The Offspring from "Kristy are you doing okay"