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Re: Love?

Posted: 25 Nov 2008, 07:32
by jee
Happiness come from within. Life is what you make of it.
Love tears the heart apart,
laughter heals.

It takes time.
Its not always easy
Sometimes you think you are fine
and one morning you wake up and the world is dark and murky
Laughter heals.

We make our own happiness.

That old cliche - go out and smell the roses? hmmm perhaps its one that has never lost its colours - perhaps its still new, after all the time.

Oh, and Huggles.
Thats what i missed the most after my break-up.

Huggles.

*Sooper-dooper-Screeper-Huggle!
*

Re: Love?

Posted: 25 Nov 2008, 07:43
by Screeper
Tribs/Monty - I know you guys are right, just doing it when you don't feel like it is the problem.
Koko - lol
Thanks for huggles Jee :)

I wish I could just fast-forward a year or two to get past this.

Re: Love?

Posted: 25 Nov 2008, 09:11
by jee
Screeper wrote: I wish I could just fast-forward a year or two to get past this.

no. don't wish away time. because even in our pain and sadness we learn. it makes us stronger, it makes us more resilient. perhaps the lesson is not clear - we ask "why me?"

perhaps we should ask "what must i learn?"

Re: Love?

Posted: 25 Nov 2008, 09:34
by Monty
jee wrote:
Screeper wrote: I wish I could just fast-forward a year or two to get past this.

no. don't wish away time. because even in our pain and sadness we learn. it makes us stronger, it makes us more resilient. perhaps the lesson is not clear - we ask "why me?"

perhaps we should ask "what must i learn?"
Jee beat me to it. Don't wish away the time. Its necessary for learning and understanding. It might not seem like it now, but it makes you a wiser and better person.

Re: Love?

Posted: 09 Dec 2008, 17:01
by falkon
If you realy love someone, set them free.
if they come back ,they are your's
If they don't come back
They were not mend to be yours

Screeper, best of luck in your life, take it one day at the time and remember, a smile a day keep the heartages away. That special person awaits you somewhere, look and listen too the heart and not the brain, as evil like to play around there, beauty and truth and honesty is inside the heart the outside is misleading and greates problems like this one you'fe got now

Re: Love?

Posted: 09 Dec 2008, 18:31
by Screeper
falkon wrote: a smile a day keep the heartages away.
That's a tricky bit.

Like you said, take it one day at a time..
Thanks Falkon.

Re: Love?

Posted: 09 Dec 2008, 19:11
by falkon
Not if the smile is from your heart friend.We are your friends and if you need to talk feel free to do so

Re: Love?

Posted: 28 Dec 2008, 16:09
by Screeper
This has been a rather lonely Christmas
Take away love, and our earth is a tomb.

Re: Love?

Posted: 28 Dec 2008, 16:35
by Tribble
One thing to remember - each day will be a little less lonely than the last - as the memory moves further into the past.

Sorry you were lonely. If you were here - I would hug you.

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 19:42
by jee
Screeper wrote:This has been a rather lonely Christmas
Take away love, and our earth is a tomb.
huns, then you must do what i did -= i have been without a telephone and net connection from the 15th, and spent the whole x-mas weekend totally secluded (anyone who phoned heard the phone ring and thought i was out... and worried:( ) I live in a forest, and we had storms and mist for most of the time.
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One can choose to be lonely. Or one can choose to celebrate in life. The birds in the early morning, the swirl of the mist, the cool of the air caressing your skin, the delicate daylily, precious in the morning, gone at night.... peanut butter sarmies, deep mugs of berry tea with fresh mint, piles and piles of books, tugged up under a wooly blanket, listening to the song of the leaves in the misty wind... we have so much to be thankful for. I, off course, more so, because love came in the form of 5 furry bundles that enjoyed the mist with me ;)

it gets better huns..... ether huggles...

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 19:55
by doo_much
[chorus]

Are you lonesome tonight
Are you lonesome tonight
etc etc

[/chorus]

Who the heck sang that??

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:03
by doo_much

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:18
by jee
doo huns, are you getting to the age where you are talking to yourself?

hmmm if you get lonesome, i can share :)

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:18
by doo_much
promises promises :?

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:20
by jee
doo_much wrote:promises promises :?

there... with love.... Aiko is lying on her chair tho ;)

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Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:25
by doo_much
As snug as a cat(s) on a rug? :D

I was thinking more in the line of .... errr... never mind. I will NOT tell you all about it tomorrow :oops:

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:30
by jee
doo_much wrote:As snug as a cat(s) on a rug? :D

I was thinking more in the line of .... errr... never mind. I will NOT tell you all about it tomorrow :oops:
*grins* don't worry huns, i'm old enough to get the drift.... mind, you are too young for me *sigh*

but then, love knows no boundaries? mind, would that have been love? or just fun? makes one wonder how close love and lust are...

oh, i know i will get moaned at [yes yes, its not the cat thread, but cats=love!]
(mind, those 4 were on my bed :) but here is her ladyship, Aiko, on my nice clean chair....
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doo darlin' are you workin'?

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:36
by doo_much
work is but a figment of my imagination! 8)

Having a bite to eat before joining my neighbours (and my neighbour's sister :twisted: ) for some serious whatever! :D

And keep posting the cats - they're nice! :mrgreen:

By the by - careful what you say about age. I'm precisely the same age as Tribs and some people like younger/older partners? :happy6:

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:40
by jee
doo_much wrote: some people like younger/older partners? :happy6:
i prefer younger partners... i find the most of the older ones can't keep up.....


:lol:

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 20:43
by doo_much
I tend not to discriminate.
One finds the most interesting and creative people in the most stimulating environs. Allowing age to get in the way tends to desensitise the experience... :twisted:

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 21:44
by Screeper
jee wrote: ..I live in a forest..
..I, off course, more so, because love came in the form of 5 furry bundles that enjoyed the mist with me ;)
The solution is to live in a forest and get some cats.
Cute cats Jee :)

Matt Groening wrote:Love is like racing across the frozen tundra on a snowmobile which flips over, trapping you underneath. At night, the ice-weasels come

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 21:53
by jee
ice-weasels are furry...... ;)

Re: Love?

Posted: 31 Dec 2008, 22:04
by Screeper
jee wrote:ice-weasels are furry...... ;)
This is true, mind you I imagine they're a bit chilly to share a couch with..

Re: Love?

Posted: 01 Jan 2009, 11:52
by Tribble
:lol: I used to believe in love being passionate, wild, exciting. I found out that that is lust. Love is what keeps you going - no matter what goes wrong, no matter how bad things seem. Love holds you in the dark of night, when your soul is destroyed - it brings it back to life. Sadly - it is rare to find love. On the upside - lust is everywhere :twisted:

Re: Love?

Posted: 01 Jan 2009, 12:30
by D3PART3D
I seem to be falling in love with myself recently, I don't feel like a klutsy n00b anymore (even though I still am a klutsy n00b). I actually like me and my weirdness. This is worrying.

WHERE IS DOCTOR JUNG!!!!

:lol: